Win Back Ex Boyfriend Girlfriend Husbands Wives - Simply and Quickly

By: Mark Myers

Are you positive you want this? You can win back ex girlfriends, husbands, boyfriends, wives, whatever it is you lost. All you need is a primer in influence. There are things you can say and things you can do, that stack the odds overwhelmingly in your favor.
First let's discuss your relationship. If you were only together for 6 months or less, they probably are simply not interested.. Let it go, and find someone else. If your history together was longer, you can win back an ex with a carefully orchestrated plan.
Your ex does not want to be alone, believe this and trust it. People are pack animals, and nature dictates they find a mate. If they have time invested with you, it is not too late. Here is one of human nature factoids. If you want to win back an ex, you have to pretend you do not want them.
Here is the first step, call your ex and agree with the break up, tell them it was a good idea and for the best. Then do not explain, do not go further, do not elaborate, and whatever you do, do not tell them you want to be friends. They must believe it is totally over in your eyes.
After you do this, make no contact for three to four weeks. No comments on MySpace, asking their friends about them, texting, email,nothing. Their loneliness (yours too) will peak at three weeks. This is when they are the most vulnerable. If your ex contacts you in the three weeks of silence, great. But you must initiate contact for three or four weeks, unless you made a fool of yourself at the beginning, then give it a couple extra weeks.
Now call them and invite them for an innocent rendezvous, like coffee or lunch. If you keep it innocent and on their turf, they know they can get away quick and are more likely to agree. When you meet keep it light. Pretend you are meeting an old friend to catch up, keep it simple. Make your ex laugh, the sooner the better, then they will relax. After three weeks, your ex will have selective memory, and will have forgotten most of your faults and will only remember the good things about you.
Have your ex remember some of the pleasant memories you had together. This is important. Talk like your ex. Use the same words, speed and tone that they do. Do they use picture words, sound words, or feeling words? (Like I see (picture) what you're saying. I hear (sound) what you're saying. What your saying feels good (feeling).) Use these same kinds of words back to them in the same pitch, tone, and tempo that they do.
Match and mirror their body language. If they cross their legs, cross yours. If they use their right hand to make a gesture, use your left. But be subtle about it. Breath at the same rate that they do. After a couple minutes of pacing them, it is time to test and lead. Touch your ear, and see if they touch theirs. Once they follow your lead, you have built enough rapport and trust to get them slowly back into your life, congratulations.
Take it slow and learn more about human nature, you only have three weeks to learn everything you need to know. Develop a plan and learn all the secret psychological tricks of the trade.

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